This past weekend I attended my 60th high school class reunion in Mason City, Iowa. Mason City is a town of about 30,000 in northern Iowa, known mostly for being the model for River City in Meredith Wilson’s musical, Music Man.
Out of a class of 340, one hundred ten of us showed up from California to Virginia and Texas to Idaho. We came to catch up with old friends, become reacquainted with others we didn’t know so well and relive memories from long ago.
What was noteworthy about our gathering was that everyone had a genuine interest in one another. There were no agendas. There was no competition in the sharing about family or what was going on in people’s lives. People shared more about family than careers or past accomplishments. There was no discussion involving politics, the public arena or world affairs.
We reminisced about a more innocent time when as children we could walk several blocks to our elementary schools without our parents and concerns for safety. We could ride our bikes to any part of town at any time of day or night without worry of being mugged or molested.
We still said the pledge of allegiance in our schools “as one nation under God,” and we sang Christmas carols at Christmas concerts. God was not banned from the public square and the Christmas crèche still appeared in the town’s Central Park.
We said grace at our Saturday evening dinner, and remembered the 95 members of our class who have passed from this life to the next in a beautiful slide show.
We parted Saturday evening with lots of hugs and well wishes, realizing that for those of us who came from quite a distance, it might be the last time we will see one another.
In reflecting on the weekend, what struck me was that everyone present had worked hard all their lives at whatever their occupation was, raised and loved their families to the third, and in one case, even the fourth generation. Whatever their religious faith or background, they evidenced a belief in God. They experienced the challenges and blessings of life, but were still motivated to do the right thing.
As the psalmist said, “You have given me the heritage of those who fear your name.” (Psalm 61:4)
St. Paul may have described the situation even better when he said, “Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. So we fix our eyes on not what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” (1 Corinthians 4:16, 18)