“My son you are here with me always; everything I have is yours.” (Luke 15:31)

These are the words of the father to the eldest son in the Parable of the Prodigal Son.  In the parable the younger son asks for his inheritance, leaves the home of his father and elder brother, and goes to a distant land where he squanders the inheritance on loose living.  He comes to his senses, and decides to return home.  His father welcomes him home and has a feast to celebrate his return.

When the elder son finds out, he is resentful and refuses to join in the welcoming festivities.  He complains to the father that he has always been obedient, but the father has never given him even a young goat to share with his friends.  The father responds that the elder son is always with him and that everything the father has is the elder son’s. 

What a beautiful illustration of God’s love for both sons.  The loving forgiveness for the younger repentant son is obvious.  The love for the elder son is more subtle.  Some of us may have experienced times in our lives, when like the elder son, we have experienced jealousy or resentment of the attention and forgiveness someone has received whom we deem unworthy.      

We brood, we fume, we get ourselves all worked, but God says to us, “My son, my daughter, you are here with me every day, and I am always with you.  Everything I have is yours – my grace, my love, my forgiveness, my healing; my promise of eternal life.  All of these are mine which I share freely with you.  Accept my love and the grace of these gifts.  Accept my invitation to join in the family celebration!

Over the years, I have quietly struggled with being judgmental and seeking recognition. Like the older son, these sins set up barriers in me to experience the fullness of the Father’s love and grace.  Not that the Father withholds his love and grace from me, but that these actions interfere with me being able to fully experience his love and grace.   

Like the older son, do you set up barriers that interfere with your experiencing all that the Father has for you? 

“God created man in his image; in the divine image he created him, male and female he created them.  God blessed them, saying to them: ‘Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it.’” (Genesis 1:27-28)

The family is the natural result of this creation and all that follows. God calls us to carry forward his design from generation to generation. This is a blessed calling, ordained by the one who created all that exists. It is filled with challenges and sacrifice, but can be balanced with deep love and unforgettable blessings.  Let me share one small example.

A few years ago, we were visiting two of our children’s families to attend the high school graduation of our oldest grandson.  Following a post-graduation party and dinner, we were sitting around visiting with the two families, including our grandson’s paternal grandparents, when the grandson’s siblings and cousins came up with the idea that the two grandfathers should take the six grandchildren to play laser tag.

So here we were, two white haired septuagenarians and six teenagers, ages 12 to 18, driving in an eight passenger van to a local laser tag arcade. For those who have never had the experience, laser tag is a game where you put on a vest with four electronic targets located on the chest, back and both shoulders, along with a hand-held infrared laser gun.  You are put in a low light room with two levels and various structures to run around and hide behind while aiming your laser gun at another person’s target areas.  A hit on another person gives you 100 points and a hit on you subtracts 50 points and disables your gun for three seconds.  The person with the most points wins.

Both the kids and the white haired old guys had a blast! The old guys were quite proud of themselves and will long cherish the memory.  Hopefully the young folks, separated by two generations, will as well.

We may not think that laser tag has much to do with God’s design for family, but in this case, there was love in the request from the youngest generation, and love in the acceptance by the generation once removed.  Upon arriving back at the house there was joy among all three generations by what had taken place.

God’s design for his creation was being lived out through three generations of family, ironically and humorously highlighted through a mundane game of laser tag.

Do you see God’s hand in the ordinary circumstances of your family?

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you.” (John 14:27)

Jesus’ promise of peace to the disciples is also available to us today.  It is a beautiful gift that we cannot get from the world. Let me share a story to illustrate. 

It started with a call from my urologist, “You have an aggressive and an advanced form of prostate cancer.”  A biopsy showed an increased PSA, the marker of prostate cancer’s presence, and a Gleason score of 9 out of 10, a measure of the aggressiveness of the cancer.  I was shocked and initially fearful.  I let family and friends know and asked for their prayers.  As I started to receive the assurance of their prayers and concern, I began to experience God’s love and peace.  Like the disciples, I needed to realize that Jesus was in my midst to receive his peace. 

He was with me in the numerous acts of love from my wife, our children, and brothers and sisters in Christ. He was with me as a good Christian brother inveigled his way into the pre-op room as my brother (in Christ, that is) and led the doctors and nurses circled around my bed in prayer before surgery.  He was with me through my wife who was a constant support and always present.  He was with me through adult children who left their own families to spend time with me. He was with me in the quiet moments as he whispered to my spirit.

After thirteen years of apparently being cancer free, my PSA began to rise again. It was right after a new scan had been developed to detect tumors as small as a few millimeters called a PSMA scan. While the insurance company first denied coverage, they later approved it and discovered a small tumor above my bladder.  The radiologist recommended proton radiation which the insurance again denied but later approved.  I had thirty-seven radiation treatments without a trace of side effects.  That took place three years ago and my PSA has continued to decline below the recurrence level. 

How do we seek peace from Jesus? By asking him to come into our midst, seeking his support, healing, and peace. He often brings healing in ways we may not be aware of.  He uses modern medicine.  Sometimes he heals directly.  He inspires support and love from family and friends.  The result, a peace the world cannot give. 

Have you sought the peace that Jesus offers? 

“If you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it.”  (Genesis 4:7)

God was responding to Cain who was angry when God had rejected his offering but accepted the offering of his brother, Abel.  God was asking Cain why he was angry, that if he did what is right he would be accepted.  Then God goes on to warn Cain that if he doesn’t do what is right sin will be crouching at his door, ready to entrap him. 

This reminds me of the words of a wonderful woman who was 101 years old that I took communion to on several occasions. Even though Dottie did not hear well, she loved to talk and share experiences from her long life.  Among her many words were:

“Love covers a lot of wrongs.  I am not a perfect person, but God gives me a lot of love, so I love and that makes up for me not being perfect.  I have found that it is easier to be happy than sad, and it’s also more fun.  So, at my age, I just think happy thoughts.  Satan is always hanging around to cause us trouble, but I just tell him, ‘Satan, be gone!’ and he runs from me.  He is very tricky.  He tries to get us to do things we shouldn’t do, but I tell him, ‘You get out of here!’”

Her observations are in line with God’s admonition to Cain that sin is always crouching at our door, waiting to ensnare us.  This is also in line with other scripture from the New Testament.  Saint Peter in his first letter says, “Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.  Resist him, standing firm in the faith.” (1 Peter 5:8-9)

As God suggests to Cain, and as Dottie offers in her long life of experiences, we must be aware that Satan is real.  He puts thoughts in our minds and is looking to entice us to do things that lead us away from God.   We need to be alert to his ways.  Prayer, scripture, and the sacraments of the church are tools to resist his efforts. 

As the apostle James says, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.  Come near to God and he will come near to you.” (James 4:7-8)

How do you resist temptations that pull you away from God?

The Gospel of Mark reports that when Jesus arrived in the region of Gennesaret on the Sea of Galilee, people ran throughout the area and carried the sick on mats to wherever they heard he was.  “They begged him to let them touch even the edge of his cloak, and all who touched him were healed.” (Mark 6:56)

It doesn’t take much to get a response from Jesus.  He and God the Father have great love for us.  They are waiting for us to invite them into our lives in any manner of ways.  In this Gospel passage all they had to do was touch the edge of his cloak. 

The smallest action on our part can secure a response.  Whatever that action may be, if it evidences a desire to move toward Jesus and seek his help, he is waiting to respond.  Earlier in Mark’s Gospel there is the report of a woman who had been bleeding for twelve years and came up behind Jesus in a large crowd and said, “’If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.’  Immediately her bleeding stopped and she felt in her body that she was freed from her suffering.”  (Mark 5:25-29)

In a similar way, regardless of whether you are a practicing Christian, the slightest move toward Jesus will likely beget a response from him.  There is the famous painting of Jesus knocking on a door with no handle.  When the artist was asked why he did not include a handle, he said that the door could only be opened from the inside.

Jesus wants us to open the door of hearts to him, but the door can only be opened by us.  He will not force himself on us but will respond to any gesture or the slightest move on our part. 

Are you willing to make the slightest move toward Jesus for a need in your life?

As Jesus was entering Jerusalem prior to his passion, a crowd of his disciples began to praise God joyfully in loud voices for all the “mighty deeds” they had seen.  Their exuberant and unrestrained praise caused some Pharisees in the crowd to complain to Jesus, asking him to rebuke them, but he responded, “I tell you, if they keep silent, the stones will cry out.” (Luke 19:40).   

All of creation had been awaiting God’s personal and physical visitation to make things right upon the earth.  That visitation was now taking place in the person of Jesus of Nazareth, the Messiah and Son of God.  Jesus is saying that if those who recognize his visitation and miracles are restrained in their joy and praise, even the stones, though inanimate objects, will cry out.

As current day disciples, are we joyful and loud in our praise of all the good things God has done in our lives, or are we restrained in our cool and sophisticated ways?

Many years ago, I was prayed with for the release of the power of the Holy Spirit by some nuns from the St. Elizabeth Ann Seaton House of Prayer at an evening of renewal program in Briar Cliff Manor, New York.  I experienced a personal encounter with Jesus Christ and my faith was renewed.  It was a mountain top experience.  I remember driving home in a blinding snow storm on the hilly and curvy roads of upper Westchester County, New York.  I could hardly see beyond the hood of my car, but it didn’t matter, for I was brimming with joy and praise of God for his visitation and the changes that he was bringing about in my life.  Even the blizzard, like the Pharisees, could not restrain my joy and praise. 

Today, with five older children and thirteen grandchildren, many Christian friends, and the Lord’s faithful presence, this space is not sufficient for me to acknowledge and praise God for all his works and miracles we have witnessed in the past forty-five plus years.  But if you stay tuned to this blog, I promise that I will share some of the stories in the weeks ahead.

Do you hold back your praise of God for the blessings and miracles in your life?

When I was in my mid-thirties, I met Jesus in a new and personal way, different from anything I had experienced before in the practice of my Catholic faith.  While I have shared the details of this encounter in prior blog posts, let me just say that it had the effect of enhancing my faith in God and the Church.  It gave me a desire to pray more, read scripture, and experience everything about my spiritual and faith life in a more intense and real way.

As John the Baptist saw Jesus passing by one day he observed to Andrew, one of his disciples, that Jesus was the “Lamb of God!”  Andrew then spent the day with Jesus, and afterwards, went to his brother, Peter to share that he had found the Messiah and wanted to introduce him to Jesus.

“The first thing Andrew did was look for his brother, Simon and tell him, ‘We have found the Messiah (that is, the Christ).  And he brought him to Jesus.” (John 1:41 NIV)

Like Andrew, my meeting Jesus in a new way gave me a desire to tell others about my experience of meeting Jesus.  I was so excited about my encounter and the effect it had on my life that I wanted to share my experience with family, friends, and even co-workers. 

I remember writing lengthy letters to my parents and a cousin, who was a nun, explaining in great detail all that happened.  I shared my experience with a couple of close work colleagues who seemed to accept what I had to say.  One of them retold my story to other work colleagues.  Some friends invited me to share my experience at a parish prayer meeting.  One invitation seemed to lead to another. 

For over forty years, I have been trying to respond to opportunities to tell people about Jesus, including this weekly blog.  Yes, there have been times when I have missed or failed to act on opportunities.  But telling people about Jesus and introducing them to him seems to be the way Jesus started out with Andrew, Peter, and the others he called.  Andrew introduced Peter to Jesus, and Peter, Andrew and the other disciples were Jesus’ “witnesses in Jerusalem, throughout Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”  (Acts 1:8)

Like Andrew, have you sought to introduce others to Jesus?

“Have you any reason to be angry?” (Jonah 4:4) God asked this question of Jonah after he told him to go to the city of Nineveh and declare that because of their evil ways God would destroy the city within 40 days.  Jonah did what God asked him to do, and the people and king of Nineveh declared a fast and repented of their evil ways.  So, God withheld his destruction.  Jonah became angry because God did not do to Nineveh what he told Jonah he was going to do.   

Like Jonah, our reasons for getting angry may not make any sense or appear petty.  This past week I got angry about having to attend a meeting instead of completing some work that I thought was more important.  I found myself being critical of everything that was happening in the meeting until I realized that the evil one was getting me riled up because I was having to interrupt “my schedule” and what I thought was more important than attending this meeting. 

St. Peter reminds us in his first letter, “Be self-controlled and alert.  Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.  Resist him, standing firm in the faith.” (1 Peter 5:8-9)

Our pride, which is one of the deadliest of sins, wants to distract us from Jesus’ call for us to love and serve others and fulfill God’s will in all that we do.  Anger is often a sure sign of the devil’s presence in our lives tempting us to do something against God’s will. 

James, in his letter says it simply, “Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.  Come near to God and he will come near to you.”  We can come near to God through prayer, reading his word, participating in the sacraments, and seeking his presence in all that we do.

When you get angry do you stop to think that it may be the devil trying to deter you from doing God’s will?  

“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.” (Hebrews 1:3 NIV)

These words of St. Paul in his letter to the Hebrews set forth a significant truth.  Jesus is the exact representation of God.  Do you want to get to know God, get to know Jesus.  It may be hard for us to picture God and get our heads around who he is.  God may have appreciated this difficulty, so he decided to become one of us in the person of Jesus 2100 years ago.  We have just come off celebrating that event with Christmas. 

In John’s Gospel, Phillip, who had been with Jesus for almost three years as one of his disciples says, “Lord show us the Father and that will be enough for us. Jesus answered, ‘Don’t you know me Phillip, even after I have been among you such a long time.  Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.’” Jesus seems to be frustrated with Phillip.  He says, “How can you say, ‘Show us the Father?’  Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and the Father is in me?” (John 14:8-10)

Jesus’ words to Phillip also apply to us.  If we have come to know Jesus, we have come to know the Father.  While the Church teaches that we receive the Father, the Son (Jesus), and the Holy Spirit in our baptism, it may take an adult yes to activate that presence as we mature.  Later in John’s Gospel, Jesus says that if we love him and obey his teaching (an adult yes), he and the Father will come and make their home in us – an amazing promise! (John 14:23)

Have you opened the door of your life to Jesus so that he and the Father may take up residence?

Three times God speaks to Joseph through an angel in a dream.  The first time was to tell him to take Mary as his wife after he had decided to divorce her quietly because she was pregnant.  The second time was to flea to Egypt to escape Herod’s efforts to kill the child Jesus. 

The third time was to return to Israel when it was safe.  “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child’s life are dead.” (Mt. 2:20)

The Bible does not reveal many details, so we don’t know the time periods involved or all of the circumstances.  Whatever the time, perhaps years, Joseph’s response to the sequence of events exhibited great trust and confidence in God.  He accepts an explanation for Mary’s pregnancy that defies all human experience. Then he takes his wife and new baby to a foreign land in reliance on a warning in a dream.

We see the faithfulness of God to Joseph in his multiple words, signs and the evolving circumstances.  The angel’s message about Mary giving birth to a son, who was to be a “Savior” and “The Messiah,” was subsequently confirmed by some unknown shepherds who report that angels told them the same thing. (Luke 2:11) 

By the Holy Spirit, Elizabeth recognizes Mary as “the mother of my Lord.” (Luke 1:43) Further confirmation comes through the words of Simeon and Anna during the presentation of Jesus in the Temple. (Luke 2:2-38) Then God directs three kingly men from foreign lands to find Jesus, Mary and Joseph and give them gifts, including gold, that may have sustained them in their flight to Egypt. (Matthew 2:1-12) 

Finally, Joseph receives one more message that it is now safe for them to return to Israel.  We see trust and faithfulness in Joseph in his willingness to act on the words he had received and in his submission to the circumstances. 

What is your level of trust and confidence in God when he gives you that gentle nudge or whispers in your ear?    Do you see his faithfulness and desire for you in the circumstances of your lives?