On the first day of the week following Jesus’ crucifixion,Mary Magdalene had gone to the tomb where Jesus had been laid.  She sees that Jesus’ body is not in the tomb and she is distraught.  She encounters Jesus, but does not recognize him, thinking he is the gardener.  Though she does not recognize him by sight, she does by the way he says her name. “Jesus said to her, ‘Mary.’” (John 20:16) It was a sound familiar to her and exclusive to their relationship.

When I was a young boy, my mother called me, “Billy.”  When I heard her call me, I didn’t have to see her to know that it was her.  My father used to call me “Son.”  Again, I didn’t have to see him when he addressed me to know that it was him.  There was a special relationship and familiarity there.  The same is true with my wife, members of my family and close friends.

This is the kind of relationship Jesus wants to have with us – one that is so close, so familiar, and so intimate, we don’t need to see him to know he is there.  At every moment he stands at the door of our heart waiting to be invited in, ready to embrace us and to offer his friendship, ready to listen to our deepest concerns and offer his wisdom — ready to say our name. “He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out…the sheep follow him because they recognize his voice.”  He says, “I know mine and mine know me.” (John 10:3, 4, 14)

It is easy for me to let the noise and many distractions in my life drown out the gentle whisper of Jesus.  It requires a deliberate choice on my part to stop and listen for his presence. 

How close is your relationship with Jesus?  Do you hear his gentle whisper in your thoughts?  Do you recognize him when he calls your name or seeks to offer guidance to your path?

A few years ago, my son, Steve, son-in-law, Greg, and I were boating down the Atlantic Intercostal Waterway.  On the second day we ran into gale force winds on Chesapeake Bay on our way to Norfolk, Virginia.  The winds were coming out of the northeast generating waves of five to six feet or more.  The Coast Guard had posted two flags which meant that the winds were blowing at 39 to 54 mph.  Because we were heading south and the winds were coming at our stern, it was more difficult to control the steerage of the boat. 

We of course put on our life jackets.  I asked Steve to go down in the cabin for additional ballast, and Greg to stay on the flying bridge with me to monitor our location on the GPS.  The skies were heavily overcast and visibility to shore and the markers designating the channel were marginal.  There weren’t any safe inlets along this portion of the Bay to go for cover, and it would have been too dangerous to turn toward shore with the winds and waves then hitting us broadside.

Never having experienced these conditions before, I found myself learning how to control the boat as we proceeded.  The key was not pulling back on the throttle as the boat accelerated down the front side of a wave to avoid the boat turning sideways and capsizing.  This almost happened to us early on.  It took us over four hours to reach Norfolk, which was not that far.  I was never so happy to see the outlines of an aircraft carrier through the haze at the Norfolk Naval Base. 

Because I was so concentrated on maintaining control of the boat over the entire period, I never even remembered to pray for God’s protection.  Yet we had during all of this, Jesus’ final words and promise to his disciples, “And behold, I am with you always until the end of the age.”  (Matthew 28:20) This promise echoes the birth narrative, “Behold, the virgin shall be with child and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmauel,” meaning “God is with us.” (Matthew 1:23) 

What a blessing for those who believe in Jesus, God’s Son, and Messiah, that he, his presence, and protection, are always with us, even when we are preoccupied and not thinking about him.  Thank you, Lord Jesus! 

[The picture includes Steve, son-in-law Ralph who joined us on the return trip, yours truly, and Greg.]

“An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him.” (Luke 22:43) The Gospel of Luke reports that after Jesus submitted to the Father’s will to accept the cup of his passion, God sent him an angel to strengthen him to endure all that he would be facing.  

Our human suffering, however severe, may never equal Jesus’ “agony in the garden.”  Yet, how often have we seen people endure incredible suffering from a terminal illness or the loss of a loved one with determined faith, while still maintaining an unusual peace and joy that can only come from God?   

Sometimes God uses one of his special angelic messengers to bring strength and consolation.  Sometimes he uses family or friends to perform this role.  

This brings to mind an experience I had when I was 15 years old following surgery to correct a defective sternum bone that I was born with.  The lower part of my sternum was bent inward that had the effect of crowding the heart and lungs as I started growing in my teen years.  This apparently caused an enlarged heart, severely impacting my future health and long term survival. 

We were living in Mason City, Iowa, about 120 miles north of Des Moines.  A thoracic surgeon in Des Moines had developed a corrective repair that involved splitting the sternum from the rib cage, inserting a bone strut from one side of the rib cage to the other and laying the sternum back down and wiring everything back together. 

This was considered experimental surgery in the mid-1950s, when they were not quite as good at pain management as they are today.  As a result, I was in a lot of pain from the surgery and discomfort with all of the tubes continuously pumping fluids from my chest cavity.  I remember telling my parents, to their consternation, that I would not have done this if I knew it was going to be so bad. 

On the fourth day, Father John from our parish in Mason City visited me.  We had become close friends during the course of his weekly instructions for me to join the Catholic Church a couple of years earlier.  To make this visit, he had to drive two hours after Sunday morning masses from Mason City to Des Moines, and then two hours back in time to say a Sunday evening mass. 

He talked with me, encouraged me and prayed with me.  He was like the visitation of an angel lifting my spirits.   I didn’t complain any more to my parents about the surgery, and spent the rest of the summer recuperating.  I have always remembered how his visit turned things around for me, along with the sacrifice it took for him to make it happen.   

Like Father John, may we be inspired to serve as angels to others in their time of need. 

“An angel from heaven appeared to him and strengthened him.” (Luke 22:43) The Gospel of Luke reports that after Jesus submitted to the Father’s will to accept the cup of his passion, God sent him an angel to strengthen him to endure all that he would be facing.  

Our human suffering, however severe, may never equal Jesus’ “agony in the garden.”  Yet, how often have we seen people endure incredible suffering from a terminal illness or the loss of a loved one with determined faith, while still maintaining an unusual peace and joy that can only come from God?   

Sometimes God uses one of his special angelic messengers to bring strength and consolation.  Sometimes he uses family or friends to perform this role.  

This brings to mind an experience I had when I was 15 years old following surgery to correct a defective sternum bone that I was born with.  The lower part of my sternum was bent inward that had the effect of crowding the heart and lungs as I started growing in my teen years.  This apparently caused an enlarged heart, severely impacting my future health and long term survival. 

We were living in Mason City, Iowa, about 120 miles north of Des Moines.  A thoracic surgeon in Des Moines had developed a corrective repair that involved splitting the sternum from the rib cage, inserting a bone strut from one side of the rib cage to the other and laying the sternum back down and wiring everything back together. 

This was considered experimental surgery in the mid-1950s, when they were not quite as good at pain management as they are today.  As a result, I was in a lot of pain from the surgery and discomfort with all of the tubes continuously pumping fluids from my chest cavity.  I remember telling my parents, to their consternation, that I would not have done this if I knew it was going to be so bad. 

On the fourth day, Father John from our parish in Mason City visited me.  We had become close friends during the course of his weekly instructions for me to join the Catholic Church a couple of years earlier.  To make this visit, he had to drive two hours after Sunday morning masses from Mason City to Des Moines, and then two hours back in time to say a Sunday evening mass. 

He talked with me, encouraged me and prayed with me.  He was like the visitation of an angel lifting my spirits.   I didn’t complain any more to my parents about the surgery, and spent the rest of the summer recuperating.  I have always remembered how his visit turned things around for me, along with the sacrifice it took for him to make it happen.   

Like Father John, may we be inspired to serve as angels to others in their time of need. 

“You Fool! This very night, your life will be demanded from you.  Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself?” (Luke 12:20) 

This is what God said to the person in the Parable of the Rich Fool who built bigger barns for his abundant crops, thinking he could relax, “take life easy; eat, drink and be merry.” It was part of Jesus’ message to “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance in his possessions.” He went on to warn, “This is how it will be with anyone who stores up things for himself but is not rich toward God.” (Luke 12:15, 21) 

I am reminded of a conversation I had many years ago with a good friend and spiritual mentor. We were talking about tithing, and I asked since a portion of our income was taken in taxes that we never get to control, should I tithe based on my net or gross income?  He responded by asking a different question, “Did I want to experience God’s presence and blessings in a net or gross manner?”  We decided that we wanted to experience all that God had for us in in his most gross presence and blessings.    

We have learned that you cannot outgive God.  There have been times in the past when we wondered whether we could respond to a certain request, only to have an unexpected insurance refund show up in the mail following our response. 

After this parable, Jesus goes on to encourage us not to worry about our circumstances. He says, “But seek his kingdom and these things will be given to you as well.” (Luke 12:31)

How do you respond to Jesus’s admonition and encouragement?  

“People were bringing babies to Jesus to have him touch them. When the disciples saw this, they rebuked them.”  When Jesus saw what the disciples were doing, he chastised them and said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them…” (Luke 18:15, 16)

The disciples thought that they were protecting Jesus from people bringing their children to him. Jesus didn’t think he was being bothered.  He said, “Do not hinder them.” 

There is a lesson to us in these words. God does not want us to be an obstacle to our children being brought to him or finding him. Just as we are responsible for nurturing the physical wellbeing of our children, so too, are we responsible for nurturing their spiritual wellbeing.    

There are many ways that this can happen. We can introduce them early on to the idea that there is a loving God who created us and all that exists. He humbled himself to become one of us in the person of Jesus. He gave his life for us to save us from our sins and eternal death. Then he sent his Holy Spirit to empower us and give us wisdom and strength to cope in a hostile world.

It is a long-term process that takes perseverance in guidance as well as the example of our own lives – perhaps the most difficult aspect of parenting.  I had a good friend who was a good and righteous man who was active in prison ministry and a ministry to the workplace. I always remember a story he shared that had so much influence on his life. He said that when he was a young boy and would come downstairs in the morning he would find his father on his knees praying in their living room. He said it had a huge impact on him throughout his life, something he always remembered.

Lest we think that the spiritual component of our children’s lives is not as important as their physical and intellectual nurturing, Jesus has even stronger words for us when he says, “Things that cause people to sin are bound to come, but woe to that person through whom they come. It would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around his neck than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin.” (Luke 17:2-4)

As our children move from childhood through the teen years and into adulthood, there are many minefields facing their journey, particularly in today’s culture. It is important as parents that we instruct them when we have the opportunity, correct them when there is wrongdoing, and provide loving guidance and prayer as the need and opportunity arise.

Are you a hindrance or a support in your children meeting Jesus?

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”  (Psalm 100: 4-5)

This past Saturday, my daughter and I, along with a priest friend, were on our way to the Holy Land in Israel.  When we arrived in Toronto, Canada on the first of a two leg flight to Tel Aviv, Israel, we learned of the war.  Our priest friend, who was leading the pilgrimage, immediately contacted the travel agency that was facilitating the tour.  After calls to Jerusalem, the decision was made to cancel our flights to Israel and return to the United States.  We got home late Saturday night.

I was hoping to share with you some reflections of visiting the many places of Jesus’ life, ministry, death and resurrection, but I will not be able to do so now.  But I offer up a prayer of thanksgiving that we are safe and home instead of being in Israel during this terrible time.

While I am thankful to the Lord that we are safe, I am saddened and deeply troubled by all of the death and utter disregard for human life that is being inflicted on so many innocent civilians in Israel. 

May we join in a prayer to God our Father and our Lord Jesus Christ to protect the people of Israel and the people who are still on pilgrimages from further harm. 

I thank all of you who have been faithful readers of this blog for several years.  I pray for God’s grace to continue to offer reflections of his word. 

God bless you. 

Bill Dalgetty     

“Save yourselves from this corrupt generation.” (Acts 2:40)

These were words Peter spoke to the people who were present when God poured out his Holy Spirit on the apostles and the early Jewish followers of Jesus described in the Book of Acts.  This has long been regarded as the start of the Church.  The Book of Acts tells us that those looking on heard a sound like the blowing of a violent wind and saw about 120 of Jesus’ disciples praying in languages not their own, praising and worshiping God.  They asked Peter what this all meant. 

Peter responded that Jesus, who had performed many miraculous signs, had been executed by the authorities, was raised from the dead by God, and was the long awaited Messiah foretold by the prophets.  Peter said that Jesus was now pouring out his Holy Spirit as he had promised on all that believed in him.  Peter urged all that were listening to save themselves from their corrupt generation.  

Though Peter’s words were directed at the people in front of him, they are in fact timeless, applicable to generations beyond his own, including our present generation.  The loss of respect for life in our current day, the confusion over truth, the erosion of integrity, the diminishing state of sexual morality, and the abandonment of principles of natural law, including a movement to encourage children to reject their sexual nature given them by God, all point to corruption in our present generation.   

So what should we do?  Interestingly, the people of Peter’s generation asked the same question.  He told them, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”  He went on to say that this “promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off—for all the Lord our God will call.” (Acts 2:38-39) 

That’s us! We are far in distance and time, but Peter’s words are meant for us just as they were to the people of his day.  Repent of our sins, believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and we can receive the gift of the Holy Spirit to enrich and empower our lives. 

Then, we can be a leaven to our present generation by bringing the presence of Christ in us through the power of the Holy Spirit to the people and circumstances of our lives.    

What steps can you take to protect yourself from this corrupt generation? 

“So if you have not been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who will trust you with true riches?” (Luke 16:11)

After sharing the parable of the shrewd manager (Luke 16: 1-15), Jesus offers a number of comments about money and wealth and suggests that there is a correlation between good stewardship of worldly wealth and the true riches available to us from God’s Spirit.  If we are careless with worldly things and wealth, how can God trust us with the true riches of faith in him and his presence through the gifts and fruit of his Holy Spirit? 

Jesus said, “Whoever can be trusted with very little can be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.” (Luke 16:10) Some examples come to mind such as taking advantage of a salesclerk’s mistake of giving back too much change; overestimating mileage for the business use of a car for reimbursement on an expense account; helping yourself to office supplies for personal use.  How strong is our integrity if we can’t be trusted with small things that don’t belong to us?

Petty theft erodes our integrity and faithfulness to truth in both our actions and beliefs. It dulls our sense of goodness and justice and how we relate with others, for the focus is inward on ourselves instead of outward on God and others.  Like a distant black hole in the universe, we keep the light that Christ offers from shining outward.  This self-focus is an obstacle to our truly experiencing God in a personal way through his son Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. 

To all of this, Jesus adds the admonition that “No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other.  You cannot serve both God and money.” (Luke 16:13)   While God expects us to work in order to take care of ourselves and his creation, he does not want this to become our principal focus to the exclusion of our love and pursuit of him. 

Success in the workplace, moving up the corporate ladder, and earning more money are not bad in themselves, but they should not be our primary focus to the exclusion of other priorities.  Our first priority should be to love God and seek his will in all things.  I have written in these pages before how my focus as young attorney for a large company got out of whack early in my career, detracting from my relationship with God and my family.  Fortunately through God’s loving grace and a personal encounter with Jesus, he opened my eyes to what was happening and helped me to change my priorities.  

How do you balance the stewardship of career and money with seeking God’s will in all things? 

“You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” (Genesis 50:20)

We may recall the story of Joseph, the next youngest son of Jacob in the Old Testament.  Out of jealousy, his older brothers sold him into slavery to some merchants traveling to Egypt. Through a series of circumstances, Joseph is later appointed by the King of Egypt to govern the country during a time of famine which saved both Egypt and Jacob’s family from starvation.  The brothers were fearful that Joseph would now take revenge on them, but Joseph makes the above statement that while the brothers intended to harm him, God used it to bring about a larger good.  The following story has a similar result. 

Bob and Steve were partners in a newly formed company to provide specialized insurance products and services.  After the company had operated for a period of time, Bob and other partners realized that the company was not being operated in a totally ethical way.  Bob withdrew from the venture and lost a good deal of money.   

Later Bob read that Steve had been convicted of embezzlement in another matter and sent to prison. Even though Bob was angry with Steve for the money he lost in their venture, he sensed that the Lord was asking him to visit Steve in prison.  Bob’s first reaction was, “No Way! Why should I be compassionate and forgiving to this man?” The Lord’s prompting continued.  Bob was obedient to the Lord’s request.   

When Bob walked into the visitor’s area, Steve was shocked. Tears started to well up in his eyes. Steve couldn’t believe that someone he had harmed would want anything to do with him. Bob prayed with Steve, gave him a Bible and encouraged him to embrace an intimate relationship with Jesus.

When Steve was released from prison, Bob was there again to help him get back on his feet.  Steve’s mistake cost him his marriage, access to his children, two homes, all his possessions and the majority of his friends. As part of Bob’s continued commitment, he encouraged Steve to attend a Christians in Commerce retreat. That retreat transformed Steve, introduced him to daily prayer, accountability with other Christian men and encouraged him to become the man God had created him to be.

Steve eventually repaid all those who lost money through his prior actions. He regained his integrity, and became a powerful witness for Jesus Christ and his redeeming acts of love.  Steve died a few years later with his former wife and children at his side.  God took a bad situation and led Bob to forgiveness and Steve to new life – consequences that neither of them would have anticipated.

Is there a situation in your life that God could transform for good to serve his larger purpose?